1. Hello,


    Personal info as kik, email, skype etc. is not allowed ("email is....."; “kik is same as my username”) on our forum. Please use Private Messages for it.

    Personal ads with pictures or videos post in Personal and not in Pic & Movie Post.


    Thank you,

    StanleyOG.

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  2. Hello,


    New users on the forum won't be able to send PM untill certain criteria are met (you need to have at least 6 posts in any sub forum).

    One more important message - Do not answer to people pretending to be from xnxx team or a member of the staff. If the email is not from forum@xnxx.com or the message on the forum is not from StanleyOG it's not an admin or member of the staff. Please be carefull who you give your information to.


    Best regards,

    StanleyOG.

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  3. Hello,


    You can now get verified on forum.

    The way it's gonna work is that you can send me a PM with a verification picture. The picture has to contain you and forum name on piece of paper or on your body and your username or my username instead of the website name, if you prefer that.

    I need to be able to recognize you in that picture. You need to have some pictures of your self in your gallery so I can compare that picture.

    Please note that verification is completely optional and it won't give you any extra features or access. You will have a check mark (as I have now, if you want to look) and verification will only mean that you are who you say you are.

    You may not use a fake pictures for verification. If you try to verify your account with a fake picture or someone else picture, or just spam me with fake pictures, you will get Banned!

    The pictures that you will send me for verification won't be public


    Best regards,

    StanleyOG.

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  1. IowaGirl

    IowaGirl Porno Junky

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    Lately I've gotten a lot of PM's about hooking up and what not. Although I'm faltered please read my profile and se that I am married. I do not wish for you to sit there and leave comments in my mail box. Just comment on the pic it's self if you wish. Thank you.
     
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  2. Splashgirlx

    Splashgirlx Porn Star

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    People don't read and message the most crude and stupid comments. I posted about how I coped with rape recently, and got lots of messages from guys who thought I would appreciate reading how much they wanted to rape me.

    No understanding!
     
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  3. sexytoy

    sexytoy Porn Star

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    Stop

    Good for you iowagirl Fellow members please have some respect as asked for.

    Thanks.
     
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  4. coraline

    coraline The Witchy Woman

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    oh you are not alone with crazy pm's, you would think they would get the hint of not getting replies
     
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  5. Kinkymind1

    Kinkymind1 Sex Lover

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    This is a good note and I'll admit that I pm'ed you to give you a compliment once. I agree that if you don't respond then there's no need to keep pm ing. Seems easy. But if you don't want to get Pm's couldn't you just say please don't pm me of it's really bothering you. I don't really see how just being married warrants a no pm ing policy on a sex forum. But hey that's just me. Lol.
    Hey all I'm saying is this info is good to know. If It would have been stated on your profile I wouldn't have pm'ed you that I really enjoyed your pictures.
    To the other young lady on here that commented about her rape and got all the nasty messages. I'm sort that happened to you. I saw that and it was really in bad taste from the guys.
     
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  6. coraline

    coraline The Witchy Woman

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    compliments will always be taken lol its gross stuff which wont
     
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  7. Kinkymind1

    Kinkymind1 Sex Lover

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    She had just mentioned " and what not". So I kinda felt like that would include compliments. Lol.
     
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  8. Splashgirlx

    Splashgirlx Porn Star

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    Thanks for calling me young :)

    And I do reply to some PMs, if they are interesting or nice and polite. It is the ones without thought and understanding that have not taken the time to actually understand what I have already posted, that are crude, bullying and unwelcome and sometimes upsetting or annoying.
     
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  9. shadowfap

    shadowfap Fap Happy Jester

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    Those that send these type of pm's aren't thinking with their head. They want release, that is all.
     
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  10. SaraTG

    SaraTG Porn Star

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    I must be missing something. I looked at your profile and don't see anything about not sending you private messages. Unless someone is suppose to just scan all your previous posts and pick up from your comments you are married and assume that means you don't want to talk to anyone. From my experience on adult sites if people are married or not that doesn't automatically rule out them chatting or even meeting others. If I missed something please let me know so I can learn something and pass it on to others who may over look things in the future as well
     
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  11. Nympho

    Nympho sex kitten

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    It's easy to just delete them and move on. It's an adult forum full of horny men and women. Lol
     
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  12. Rothko

    Rothko Porn Star

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    WTF!! Unreal. sorry you had to put up with that
     
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  13. HylianAlchemist

    HylianAlchemist Hyrule's Alchemic Philosopher

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    Question

    As a male on this site, I understand the wide variety of people and likes on this site, and to be perfectly honest my primary reason for being on this site is to find ladies to do various forms of cyber sex with, though I have also made several friends on here as well. My question is, to the ladies on here, what exactly do you want from a random PM? I just send a message saying hello, I saw you from this post/pic, and I would be interested in doing etc. with you, and I typically end with "Hope to hear back from you soon." Is that not ok? I don't want to be another one of those stupid guys on here just going straight after you, but at the same time I want to make my intentions clear to the other person, hopefully respectfully. Is this format ok when asking to chat?
     
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  14. IowaGirl

    IowaGirl Porno Junky

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    Ok so I guess I need to clear things up. It's my that I don't want the complament. It's the dirty comments. I don't want to se your junk when I open my mail. And what I said about being married was to reinforce the statement.
     
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  15. HylianAlchemist

    HylianAlchemist Hyrule's Alchemic Philosopher

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    I understand what you are saying. What I am asking is simply whether or not my own approach would be considered inappropriate under your standards and the standards of other women on this site. I don't particularly want to be lumped in with people who harass and annoy women. I think you made your point perfectly clear, which is why I would like your opinion :)
     
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  16. Kinkymind1

    Kinkymind1 Sex Lover

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    You may cut down on allot of nasty ones by placing this statement in your profile. It's a little more focused then a public broadcast that would get buried in a few days via a thread. At least you will cut down on some of the ones who actually read before they send a message.
     
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  17. Sweetpassion

    Sweetpassion Pink gum drops.

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    You might wanna try getting to know them a little more before jumping straight in to cyber sex....I mean half the profile pics aren't real on here. With that approach you might end up opening your cam to a 400 pd woman or even worse a man in skimpy lingerie. So my advice ask questions. Have a real conversation first. Then if you two connect let the sex chat or cam. begin. This is a sex site so women know what to expect. But even a hooker would like respect. Lol
     
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  18. IowaGirl

    IowaGirl Porno Junky

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    As long as it isn't you asking if I want to get fucked hard or showing me your cock it's fine. Yes it's a porn site but women want to still be respected unless otherwise told.
     
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  19. HylianAlchemist

    HylianAlchemist Hyrule's Alchemic Philosopher

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    Ok. Thank you for your advice, I have always been respectful on here but I will make sure to have a slower approach :)
     
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  20. mike02

    mike02 Porn Star

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    Yes. As pervy as we all are, everyone needs to be respected. I don't even bring up the topic of sex with any female 'cause I feel like I'm being disrespectful.
    Cool avatar. Zelda fan?
     
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